I was just browsing through Ron Hoff;s book
I Can See You Naked and came across a few very valuable points on the value and use of comedy in a speech.
Flipping through to page 115 I came across the point: "Just think about all the good stuff
from smiling.
Almost all audiences like to smile, to laugh. They're just sitting there waiting for an excuse to laugh out loud...with a burst of laughter...everybody will feel better. Including you."
And that is true. The only problem is that you must be careful in the use of comedy in a presentation.
In his book he reminds speakers of a few of the things to keep in mind when trying to use comedy in presentations such as:
- Don't try to write jokes. Tell your audience about yourself, about some ridiculous mistake you made.
- Don/t build your presentations around jokes. Fit jokes into your message to illustrate a point
- Don't wait for laughs. If the audience does not laugh out loud move on. (They might be smiling to themselves while getting the point of the joke and your message -- you do not know).
- Don't laugh at your own jokes.
These are all good points to keep in mind for as he says on page 115: "Almost all audiences like to smile, to laugh. They're just sitting there waiting for an excuse to laugh out loud. And up you come."
In such a relaxed frame of mind so long as the rest of your information is entertaining, informative and or persuasive your selective use of comedy will make your entire presentation successful.
I once emphasized the point of not giving in to high pressure reactions and acting without thinking about the
consequences by relating how another driver was looking for me for three months because I yelled at him to get off the cell phone.
What happened was this: I was driving behind another man who sat in the middle of an intersection for two lights without moving. Finally I pulled up beside him when the light turned green for the third time and yelled: " Get off the phone and drive. Jerk!."
Three months later while I was stalled at another traffic jam at the same intersection a man suddenly appeared at my car window shouting: " Remember me? I have been looking for you for three months! He went away in disgust because I looked at him and started laughing so loud. But he could have had a gun!
My audience, after they stopped, laughing, appreciated the point I was trying to make about giving in to high pressure--mindless reactions to what other people do.
Such is the power of comedy if it is properly used. Use it but be careful.